Autism is a lifelong neurodevelopmental disability that affects communication skills, sensory processing, social interaction and developing and sustaining relationships. Although this is the main basis of the disability, there are many more traits and ways different individuals are affected by the disability.
Being an autistic female myself, I have first-hand experience on these issues and wonder why females are diagnosed less and what can be done about it. From reading nursery and primary school reports, some of the things mentioned are things that I can now recognise as autistic traits that could have been noticed if professionals were properly informed. Instead, it was not until I reached crisis aged thirteen that I was referred to CAMHS (child and adolescent mental health services) and treated mainly for anxiety and depression. It wasn’t until I mentioned to them that I thought I could be autistic that I was put on a waiting list for an assessment which took two years of waiting and being treated for anxiety and being given methods that are proven to be unhelpful to autistic people such as CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) that I finally received my autism diagnosis at 16 after years of struggling with my mental health, self-harm and suicidality which I think could have been avoided or lessened if my traits were picked up on earlier, I was diagnosed earlier and able to access help and support earlier.
I am going to talk about a lot of these things in more detail throughout this article and consider and speak about the experiences of others.
For a long time, it has been wrongly assumed by many medical professionals in the past that autism only or mainly affected young boys. One of the main reasons this has been assumed is due to the diagnostic criteria and overwhelming research being carried out on males compared to females. Recent studies suggest that the traits that males display compared to the traits that females display differ quite widely so by males being extensively researched, their traits have been recognised while it was assumed females present the same, so no research was done on any differences in gender presentation and female traits are not as recognised or widely known so why is it that males are diagnosed more than females?
A lot of female autistic people are more likely to do something called masking. This is where the autistic person hides or ‘masks’ their autistic traits and copies others around them to blend in and not be seen as different. This can be seen in autistic males but is mostly seen in autistic females which is why they fly under the radar and their traits are missed. While in primary school, many autistic girls find it easier to mask their traits as there is a lot less social demand and it can be quite easy to blend in with friends, but this mask breaks down when they reach secondary school. Research has found that in autistic females, over 55% were diagnosed after eleven years old, which is the age you enter secondary school while 71% considered themself to mask their traits fully and 25% considered themself to mask their traits in public but less around family and friends. This research shows autistic females are diagnosed later in life than autistic males who are usually diagnosed when they are ages five to eight in primary school. This earlier recognition of males allows them to access support and help earlier in life and allows this support to be more consistent and accepted as they were diagnosed when they were younger.
The transition to secondary school increases the amount of pressure on autistic females and forces them to mask more due to the increase in social demand and need to fit in which then eventually causes them to go into crisis with a lot of autistic females self-harming or becoming suicidal. I also think the hormonal changes of becoming a teenager and growing into an adult causes autistic females to struggle around this age as their body is changing and everything becomes unexpected. As these autistic females begin to struggle in secondary school, they can engage in harmful behaviours such as self-harm, drinking, drugs, suicidal tendencies, eating restrictions and school avoidance which then can allow them to access mental health professionals. Although medical professionals are said to be trained on the traits and signs of autism, this is not the case in many autistic female's experiences.
Again, based on research, over 50% of autistic females feel they have been mistreated or misdiagnosed by medical professionals when trying to access help. The most common diagnosis's given to autistic females either before or with their autism diagnosis is anxiety, depression, OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder), an eating disorder and BPD (borderline personality disorder). Although a lot of these diagnosis’s are co-morbid with autism, they were given in place of an autism diagnosis and were given when autism was not even considered as an option. This can be related to gender as males presenting these traits would likely have autism considered from the beginning of accessing medical professionals while as the traits differ from males to females, autistic females are just pushed off as being anxious and depressed. Even then, if the medical professionals finally consider autism, the waiting list for an assessment can take years meaning the autistic female gets no or little support while still struggling immensely. Not only that, 33% of people waited over a year for an autism assessment while 30% are still undiagnosed or on a waiting list.
Moreover, 75% of autistic females feel their traits present differently to autistic females and over 80% feel their traits could have been noticed and questioned earlier if people were properly informed of the difference in traits between males and females. I think if teachers, other professionals and even parents were more informed on autistic traits in females compared to males, a lot of females would be diagnosed earlier and could access support from a young age meaning they don’t reach this breaking point and are less likely to engage in harmful behaviours as they are supported and believed. From speaking to the SENDCO’s (special educational needs and disabilities coordinator), Heidi Sellars and Natalie Young, at UTC Sheffield they have agreed with my research and stated when asked ‘Do you think it is harder to recognise autism in females than in males? If so, why? Stated that “I definitely think it is harder to recognise in females because I think females can recognise what they need to do in order to fit into society so therefore they mask and can follow what they think the social norms are” and when asked ‘What do you think needs to change for autism in females to be more recognised and understood? Stated that “I think the schools need to be more aware of the smaller things so home I think that because it's a safe space you'll see a lot more traits maybe meltdowns because they hold it together at school because they know what they should be doing. I think that people need to be aware as well that conflict of this is how I am, but this is how I must act and that doesn't match, and I think that needs to be recognised and schools need to be a safer place for all students to be themselves.”
Overall, more research into autism in females compared to males needs to be done as it is unfair to allow these people struggle and have to reach crisis in order to access help.
If you need support or want to read more about this topic, see the links below.
- For immediate help call 999
- Samaritans https://www.samaritans.org/ or call 116 123
- Childline https://www.childline.org.uk/ or call 0800 1111
- Kooth https://kooth.com/
- Young Minds https://www.youngminds.org.uk/
- National Autistic Society https://www.autism.org.uk/
- Autistic Girls Network https://autisticgirlsnetwork.org/